An Unexpected Life by Gloria Steinem

Reading An Unexpected Life feels like sitting down with someone who not only witnessed some of the most significant social changes of the last century, but also helped bring many of them about. Written shortly before her death at the age of 92, this memoir is a personal reflection from one of the most influential voices in modern feminism.

Gloria Steinem was a writer, journalist, political activist and feminist organiser whose work transformed public conversations about gender equality and social justice. She co-founded New York magazine in 1968 and Ms. magazine in 1972, helping to bring women's experiences into the mainstream. Throughout her career, she combined journalism with activism, challenging discrimination and advocating for women's rights.

Over more than six decades, Gloria helped establish organisations dedicated to advancing gender equality, increasing women's representation in public life, supporting reproductive rights, improving media representation and empowering grassroots activism. She was also the author of numerous books, combining personal experience, political insight and a deep belief in the power of collective action.

Following her death in September 2026, Gloria was remembered not only for her leadership within the feminist movement, but also for her ability to encourage and support others. She spent a lifetime helping people find their own voice and inspiring new generations to continue the work of creating a fairer world.

In An Unexpected Life, Gloria begins with her childhood in Ohio, sharing stories of family, hardship and responsibility. Her early experiences shaped her understanding of inequality, resilience and independence. What makes this memoir so engaging is the way she connects these personal moments to the wider social movements that would define much of her life.

One of the aspects I enjoyed most was the comparison between then and now. Looking back, Gloria reflects on the opportunities women lacked, the barriers they faced and the progress that followed. It’s remarkable to see how much has changed within a single lifetime. Gloria celebrates what has been achieved through decades of activism while recognising how much work still lies ahead.

Although Gloria became an international feminist icon, she consistently shifts the focus towards others. She honours fellow activists and ordinary people who worked together to help create change. This emphasis on community and solidarity is one of the memoir's greatest strengths. Rather than presenting history as the achievement of a single individual, Gloria demonstrates how meaningful change happens when people come together around a shared purpose.

The writing is warm, thoughtful and often quietly funny. Gloria shares the lessons of a long life without ever sounding self-important. Knowing this is one of her final works gives extra weight to her reflections on hope, equality and the importance of lifting up future generations.

If you enjoy memoirs, social history and stories about people who have devoted their lives to making the world fairer, this book is for you.

Reviewer: Andrea Molloy

Ebury Press